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Losing love is hard enough but add rejection to the mix and it can be devastating.
Experts say that most people will give away certain clues when they’re not feeling it anymore, so to ensure you don’t get caught unawares, pay close attention.
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Lack of contact: If you are the only one who ever picks up the phone, especially if the phone calling used to be split pretty equally, and if you find that you are talking to a recorded voice more than the real thing then break up bells should start ringing.
Unavailable: He/she is suddenly busy all the time, and never seems to have time to spend with you. They plan nights out with friends and do not extend the invitation to you could indicate that they are on the look out for a new beau.
The lovin' is gone! When affection and public displays of affection start to dwindle it could mean the fire of love is also going out as well, perhaps they are sharing their affections with someone else.
Constantly Fighting: You're constantly fighting and arguing especially about little things. They don’t seem to agree with a word you say, and seem to become irritated by your very presence.
Watch their phone and computer habits: If they all of a sudden take their mobile phone with them to the bathroom or perhaps carry their laptop to the next room it’s very likely a sign that they’re talking to someone else and don’t want you to know about it.
They are pro break up: If your partner mentions separation, divorce or break up of other people’s relationship, as being a good thing it could mean that they are considering the pro’s for their own situation and could be planning a way out.
Read The Signs Take the time to learn and recognize the signs above so you won’t be taken by a surprise break up. You might not be able to change the course of the relationship, but isn’t it always a little easier when you see it coming?